There you are looking back over the year. You are thinking about all that you accomplished and notice some of the things you didn’t accomplish. There is the little pain in your stomach and a thought of “If only I had done that.” It is normal to feel this way. When we look at past desires that haven’t come into the physical form it is easy to feel a sense of regret. The only rule here is to make that regret complete! Yes, you can make the desire or goal complete in the New Year!
Making your goal complete is bringing it forward to move it into physical form. Sometimes when we have goals we make them huge and really far out there. Just because you didn’t see your desire manifest this past year does not mean it isn’t on its way. There is a Universal Law called the Law of Gender. This law states that for anything to come into form it must first go through a gestation period. Some call this law the Law of Gestation. Gestation periods bring to life the completed physical form. It is simple to see in the case of pregnancy. Everyone knows with a normal pregnancy it takes about 9 months to grow and then birth the baby. The same is true with your goals, dreams, and desires!
Goals, dreams, and desires must also go through a developmental stage in order to become complete. The first step is to know where you are and the second step is to know where you are going. The how part comes as the process moves. Sometimes you will have a crystal clear vision of how to help your desires become complete and see them in your physical reality. The times that you aren’t so clear can be the sticky point. This is the time when most people get discouraged and start to give up on what it is they want. See the Universe is working hard to bring that desire to you and it takes time for it to reach you. Your patience is the key to making it complete!
Patience is a skill and it must be developed. Some ways to helping with the skill and ensuring that your dreams will manifest and become complete are to trust, know, relax, and have fun! Trusting that you deserve what you want is number one. Many people have a hard time with trusting that they deserve anything. Now you may be thinking that you deserve everything but do you really TRUST it at your core? Think about it, think about times in your life that you really wanted something and you didn’t get it. What went through your mind? What goes through your mind now about that situation? The more you get clear with this the more you can uncover beliefs that are holding you back!
When you are holding yourself back you do not believe that your dream is going to become complete and take on its physical form. Believing is one step below knowing. Knowing is where in your core you KNOW that what you want is on its way. Nobody or nothing could tell you anything different. Now ask yourself, do you know that your dream will complete itself and you will see it come to fruition? Is there anything that could change your mind about it? Is there any situation that could move you in a different direction? Remember we are getting clear so we can become complete and see our dreams from the moment it was conceived to the moment it is birthed into reality. Be extremely honest with yourself.
Next, relax in your trust and knowing. You can keep your focus on what you are creating and check in to see how you feel. Are you tense all the time? Are you worried? Are you pushing to “make” things work? If so think of some ways to relax and let your goal move to its completed form. Take walks daily, get sun, meditate and calm your thoughts. Let your body flow with your day. Really do you want to be all worked up about your life or do you want to enjoy your life? You can do either but when it comes to completely your goals wouldn’t you rather do it while having fun?
Which brings us to the last point and that is to make it complete by having FUN! How are you bringing your dreams into life in a fun manner? Are you engaging others with your ideas? Are you creating new ways to bring your goal to life? Are you laughing while you work? Are you feeling inspired? Check in with yourself again and be honest. This is feedback and you can adjust what you are doing to make it more exciting. When you are feeling awesome about something people can feel that. They start enjoying your goal with you. They start to want it for you as well. Imagine what that kind of support would do for you in regards to making your dreams complete!
To make your dreams, ideas, and goals complete remember to check in with yourself. Be honest and find where you are with your emotions. Are you trusting, knowing, relaxing, and having fun? What areas need some attention? What areas are you doing awesome in? You have time so keep going. Now is your time to make it complete!